Birth Parents

Placing a child with an adoptive family can be emotionally devastating. It's never an easy decision to make. It takes courage. Every birth parent has his or her reason for choosing adoption. For some, they may be unable to emotionally, physically, or financially support themselves and their children. Others may want to finish their education. And some became pregnant after a traumatic event and can't live with that reminder each day. Every birth parent has a unique story to tell.

Birth parents love their children. They think about them each day. Some birth parents relive the pain of placement and the overwhelming feelings of loneliness and loss regularly. While mourning is natural, it is also important to not be overwhelmed by it. Birth parent support groups are created and maintained across the country. To find much-needed support, many birth parents find that actively participating in support groups can eventually bring self-understanding, healing, and happiness. Birth parents also have the option of visiting a professional counselor or therapist if they need additional support.

This section will help birth parents understand what happens after placement, how to move forward, how to create successful adoption relationships, and how to encourage emotional healing.


Birth Parent Articles

Birth parents looking for adopted children have a few search and reunion options. If the birth mother placed the child with the help of an agency, she can return to the agency and ask if they have post-adoption services that help reconnect birth parents looking for adopted children. Some states, however, require birth parents to register with the state registry, which keeps track of all members of adoption parties searching for one another. State registries usually run on mutual...

Birth Parent Blogs

It wasn't until I began working on my memoir that I realized that I had completely disassociated from myself as a...
5 years later
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Birth Parent Forums

new to the group
Hi everyone I'm Brenda!... Not sure how active this group is but I found it a few weeks ago and thought it would help...
3 things I Wish I had Known Before...
Thought some in here could relate to this mother. Three Things I Wish I'd Known Before Placing My Baby |...

Adoption Reunion Registry


Aug 3, 1984 (M) - I'm not sure if i was given a name at the hospital, or at birth. ... [more]

Feb 11, 1988 (M) - I was born 7 lbs 7 oz at 6:02 pm. all info i have is from my birth... [more]

Birth Mothers

Mar 29, 1987 (F) - 3/29/87,(june 26, 1987 was the date on my papers that i signed)but i... [more]

Jul 12, 1982 (F) - The baby was in the hospital for two day's after birth and taken to a... [more]

Birth Fathers

Siblings, etc.

Nov 30, 1955 (M) - All we were told is birth mother and father were both very young and... [more]

Jan 30, 1982 (F) - Was born in springfield, ma and placed in a foster home from our lady... [more]