How To Find Adopted Sibling

Sometimes, adoptions result in the separation of birth siblings. This may be something that happens later in life, for example siblings in foster care may be split up. Other siblings may have been separated by adoption years before the other was born or at the time a younger sibling was born.

The person who chooses to search may be a sibling who grew up with the adoptee's birth parents. Maybe they're trying to reconcile one of their last familial ties after the birth parents have passed. Or maybe they are curious about a hereditary disease they and the adoptee may share. Regardless of the reason to search, the results can sometimes be shocking and less satisfactory than one's ideals. It's highly suggested that anyone who decides to search for a birth relative first joins a support group for searching adoptees and birth relatives.

As for the actual process, searchers should register with their state's registry. Then, they may want to contact the agency they were adopted from. International sibling searches are going to be more complex and there are certain organizations that specialize in specific country searches for adoptees. If the adoption was of a domestic infant, then an children the adoptee's birth parents had prior to the adoption would be listed in the sealed adoption record. It may indicate basic information about the child, such as his or her age and gender.


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Amanda - 1 year ago
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Ive heard off an on for years that I had a sibling that my parents didn't keep I just recently got in contact with my birth father myself who final let me know that yes I do have a sibling out there she or he was born in 1988 right around September I don't have much to go on I just want to find out more they were born in.Oragune the adopted patents lived in California that as much as I know if anyone can help me find out more I creatly a prechate it thank you #1
Edward - 2 months ago
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My name is Edward Wayne wilhite iam 21 looking for my brother that was put up for adoption in Nevada I have all the adoption paper and the birth mothers affidavit his birthday is 7\13\91 birth name was Wayne Edwards wilhite birth mothers name is Lori wilhite he was born at the university medical center west Charleston boulevard Las Vegas Nevada I just found out about this about just vary recently my mother was married to my fathers and got pregnant by another man witch I know the name of and know personally I live in Canute Oklahoma so dose my mother and his birth father who was also married and still is to the same women if you see this and want to contact me iam on Facebook all my information is on there please contact me #2
Shawna Lay - 7 months ago
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My mother did not tell me till I was 22 that I had an older brother that was given up for adoption. I don't know a lot since my mother did not give me very much information. He was born in Arkansas around when my mother was 18-19. He could be anywhere between 5-6 years older then me and I am 30. My mother's maiden name is Teresa Noga. So if you see this and want to get in touch with me and my older sister I live in Kansas City, Mo. #3
Wayne - 1 month ago
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I am looking for my sisters. They were adopted at birth(born separate years, not twins, about 11 months apart) around 1965-66,birthdays in Jan., Feb., Place,...KY #4
MARTY - 5 months ago
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the adoption was private. I know the name of the adoptive parents but cannot find a phone numver #5
Krystal - 3 weeks ago
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Im 24 the oldest of 7 siblings from my mother Tiffany Ball i am looking and hoping to find my twin baby brothers sean and shane rios. They were taken away from their father sean rios in merced county california. Last i heard was that they have been adopted by a sheriff and his wife. If it is at all possible that they may read this i would atleast like to have a picture please.. i miss and love them so much, and it wasnt fair that they had to be ripped away from me too. Please email me xxxx #6
illona bouffine - 1 month ago
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My name is illona bouffine. I'm looking for my brother named Darien bouffine. Our mothers name is cara bouffine. His age should be 20 yrs. I haven't seen him since I was five. All I know is he was living with his dad family in Texas and I think cps had taken him before or after his dad died. He had been adopted I believe in Arlington TX I think but I can't find him. #7
Emily "Jessica" Hulburt - 8 months ago
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Of what i was told i have three long lost sisters. I was separated from adoption and to be more specific i was burned by scalding hot water by the hands of my biological parents. My adoptive mom said that it was two older one younger and my dad got confused and he told me that it was two younger and one older. I really have been wanting to find my sisters to know what they went through or if they went through a traumatic event like me. I was born in Wichita, Kansas but i don't remember the exact county or part of that city. I now live in Lawrence. My dad said he would bring me to SRS to figure out who they are but my dad keeps forgetting about that. I wonder who they are and i keep forgetting where they live in the united states with me. My biological last name is Buell or my full name was Jessica Buell. #8
Christine - 2 months ago
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I was given up for adoption from Miami Florida in 1962 I have a sister who was born by the same mother the same father in approximately 1964. I have met both birthparents but they are not willing to give up information on the other sister that was given up for adoption. How can I find her please help. #9
Susan - 3 months ago
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I am looking for a brother. Born before 1955. I think he was adoption out of Fort Wayne. I know he or some one from his family contacted the family service in whility county to try to contact my mother, in the last few years. She could not do it this had horried her for years, she did give them the right to speak to me and I answer there questions. but they could not give me any information. My other is gone now and the lady at the family services has retired. #10
sharon - 9 months ago
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looking for a sibling born and adopted out between 1946 to 1950 in montana either savage or Helena montana mother name was linda mcconaha xxxx #11
Katrina - 5 months ago
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the family rumor is that my mother had another child and gave her up for adoption. Both parents have both passed and I have no way of knowing if the rumor is fact or just that a rumor. The child was born around 1964 or 1965 was a girl and was in Kansas any idea how I find out about birth records in that state #12
Jonnae - 6 months ago
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My mom told me when I was 10 that she had a miscarriage. Five years later, today she tells me that I have a brother that got adopted. I feel hurt and lost right now. I have no idea where he is and what to do, but the only thing that I guess I can do is pray to God that he is living in a stable environment. All I want is to know where my brother is in this sense of time. #13
Jeff luft - 7 months ago
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I was adopted when I was 17 months old. I am 30 now I have found out i have 4 other siblings from my birth mother. I have made contact with 3 if them. They told me she had another daughter. She would of been born between 1984 and 1992 out of Ft dodge iowa mothers name Jacky Medearis. Thanks jeff xxxx #14
Nanci - 10 months ago
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I'm looking for my sister that was adopted out at 3 days old. I was told her birthday is 03/13/1953, born at Maywood (Ca)General Hospital - Baby Geiss. I was told by my aunt that the name given her was Cynthia Ann Homes. That's all I know. There are/have been serious medical issues with our DNA and our parents are deceased. I've always wanted to meet her and have a relationship with her. I haven't found her yet. If you know of this person or can assist me in finding her my email is xxxx. Thanks you and God Bless #15
Karen - 7 months ago
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I have always known that I have a brother somewhere that was put up for adoption. When my mother went to deliver the baby, she told us (her 5 kids)that the baby died so that we would not fear being given up as well. My mother put the baby up for adoption as she could not care for one more child. The baby was a boy and we referred to him as "Tommy". He was born at Belmont Community Hospital in Chicago around May 13, 1968. If anyone knows where else I can look to find this lost brother please let me know. Thank you. #16
megan - 2 days ago
i'm looking for anyone related to lawrence troy kester. he was in the navy in 1969 and i believe he made a career of the navy. I'm his daughter and would very much like to find any siblings #17
David - 2 weeks ago
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I am searching for two syblings...i was born in 1965 in Ohio...my mothers name was Emmaleen Biancardi...she was 28 when she had me... #18
dejah - 8 months ago
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Im try to find my adopted brother us both was adopted then later on he moved then we came out of contact the last time we herd from them we found ouy that they was Indiana please help his name is eric and he's light skin middle name could be Washington and he should be 12-14 if you found anything please comment ill check it everyday #19
Emily - 8 months ago
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I was adopted in 1995 in Orange California at birth. I am looking for my two older sisters who would be in their mid 20's or early 30's. My birth mothers name was Glenda. She ended up moving to Oklahoma to be closer to one of her other daughters and passed away shortly after. I really would like to get to know my two older sisters if possible. If anyone could help, I would really appreciate it! #20
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