The process of "embryo adoption" is something that's not often legally treated akin to the adoption of a child. Technically, adoption is only the placement of a child after birth. In most states, an embryo adoption is handled like the sale of property.
Adoptable embryos generally come from the excess frozen embryos from couples who have registered for in vitro fertilization. In the event of excess embryos, the couple can choose to "place" them with adoptive couples, release them to scientific testing or have them destroyed. Embryo adoptions work similar to infant placements. The genetic parents can work with an organization like the National Embryo Donation Center to screen prospective adoptive couples. The NEDC is endorsed by the Christian Medical Association. Therefore, they may have regulations about ideal adopters. Adopters must pass a home study, be married for at least three years, the wife must be under 45 and cannot be a smoker. Couples without their own biological children are preferred. Embryo adoption is ideally for people who have fertility complications.
Genetic parents cannot reclaim the child after an embryo is transferred to the adoptive parents. The cost of embryo adoption is about a third of the in vitro fertilization process. Using NEDC as an example again, the application fee is between $200 and $300. All additional medical costs will add up to just under $5,000 to well over $7,000. The couple may also be expected to complete a home study and counseling. Depending on adopters' medical insurance, they may be eligible for a deductible.